The Hollywood Wax Museum was started in 1965 by a Canadian former sawmill operator, Spoony Singh. Located on Hollywood Boulevard in the tourist district, the Hollywood Wax Museum claims to be the only wax museum dedicated solely to celebrities.
The Fig Tree is a restaurant located on the Venice Beach, California boardwalk. Established in 1978 the restaurant specializes in healthy food. Seating is primarily outside with a spectacular view of the beach and ocean. The view can’t be beat.
I never wanted to be divorced. I have had people ask me to marry them, but I knew it would not last. I never tried to force someone to marry be by getting pregnant or ultimatums. I have not met the person who is right for me yet.
Even more than divorce, I never wanted to be a single mom. I felt it would not be good for me and even more so for the children. None of my partners have been father material so I never made them one.
I feel that children do better growing up in a stable home with two parents. However I know one can not always predict if a relationship will work out and I have the utmost respect for women who are raising children on their own. It can not be easy. I feel good knowing I did not bring children into this world who would end up with difficulties because of a failed marriage or relationship. I have been responsible in that aspect of my life. I take relationships seriously, but I would have taken parenthood even more seriously. So while my life my be in upheaval at the current moment, the one thing I did right was to judge whether or not my partners were parent material and I did not become a single parent.
In this day and age to have to rent instead of being a home owner puts you at risk for becoming homeless. In the city of Seattle some crooked landlords are creating and adding to the problem of homelessness. Being able to charge higher rents may be the cause.
My story begins in 2009 when I rented the basement apartment from a woman named Hla Yin Yin Waing (aka Wang Helmstetter). I made the mistake of not insisting on a rental contract, which I will never do again. Our verbal agreement began with an agreed upon amount for rent and the stipulation that I would pick her children up from school and watch them until she arrived home around 6PM. That would give me the day to work on my photography business, which I was trying to start after attending fine art photography school.
Unfortunately Wang began asking for more and more favors until I was waking the family up at 8AM, helping get the children ready for school, driving Wang downtown to her job at the senior services center and driving the children to 2 different schools. I then had to pick them up and take them to their after school activities, come home, cook them dinner and wait for Wang to get home around 9 or 10. It was a full day and did not leave me time to work. All of this was done for free and she demanded rent. At first I could pay with my unemployment money, but when that ran out I had nothing. She demanded more and more and I felt I had to do it to keep a roof over my head. I had never been homeless.
I reopened my unemployment claim and began paying her rent again. I told her I could no longer be a nanny to her children as I needed to look for work. That is when she really got ugly. She intentionally flooded my apartment, which began to smell from the water damage. She told me when it happened that she was not going to help me. it was an attempt to get me to move. She began putting pressure on me about what I was going to do when my unemployment ran out. She began with holding my mail, coming into my apartment when I was and was not there. if I had a date or plans she would call me and say she was coming home late.
I finally moved to Denver to get away from her controlling behavior. My nightmare with her did not end there. She started a campaign of hate against me stating to people that I owed her money, that I was crazy and convinced people that I need to be held back so that others more worthy than I can fill job positions.
I have mostly been homeless since that time. I moved back to Seattle in 2013 where I was harassed by Asians on a daily basis. I was hit on the back of the head on the bus by an Asian man, I was ran off the road, harassed on public transportation and a bus driver refused to pick me up until I started standing in the road so he would have to stop or run me over. My complaints to police went unnoticed. Public transportation finally put up signs against harassment.
An elderly couple from my synagogue let me stay with them for a while. At first I thought it was one of the nicest things anyone has ever done for me. I soon learned otherwise. They began emulating my landlord whom I believe they met through senior services where she taught classes on how to do to others what she did to me. They knew things only she could have told them. They tried simulating the flooding of the basement, which ended up almost getting me killed as I was going to plug in a hair dryer but at the last minute change my mind. Had I done so I would not be here now. I do not believe it was intentional, but the flooding was.
Hla Yin Yin Waing is now the Executive Director of a non-profit organization called the Center for Ethical Leadership. I believe this organization conducts classes on how to do to others in Seattle what she did to me. I know this from a Facebook post where she and her organization were recommended for just that sort of thing.
if people are being manipulated into leaving or eviction, that is causing the number of homeless to rise. She is emulating Ang Sung Suu Kyi the leader of Myanmar who uses the same techniques to control the muslim minority there called the Rohingya, where a genocide of these people is now occurring.
If we want to end homelessness we need to stop supporting organizations that are creating homelessness. Before you donate money to an organization be sure you know what they are actually doing. In looking at the Center for Ethical Leadership’s website the explanation of what they do is vague. Be sure an organization can provide concrete figures and results of what they provide.
Let us make 2018 the year we begin to end homelessness.
This video is a sample of the hate I experience from the general public on a daily basis. I am kept down in poverty with no hope or chance of ever having anything but homelessness.
Last fall I began working for Amazon.com in one of their warehouses in Bellevue, Washington. It was an Amazon Fresh warehouse and the food delivery had really begun to take off, so much so the warehouse needed to move to a larger space. At the time of the move the company gave us the opportunity to move with them or to transfer to another area.
I chose to transfer to California where I have applied to enter a college program. In June of last year I was transferred to San Bernardino. The move to San Bernardino got off to a bad start right from the beginning. I was promised by Amazon to receive $3,000 in relocation money, enough money to move into an apartment. I was to receive the money with my first pay upon arriving. The money did not show up on my first paycheck and when I finally got them to pay me I only received half. The company told me this was due to my relocation pay being taxed as a bonus. This detail was never explained to me before I moved and should have been made clear. As a result of only receiving half of the relocation pay I was promised I could not afford an apartment.
Instead of moving into an apartment which would have cost first and last month’s rent plus a deposit, I had to try and make ends meet in an economy motel. I was not always able to afford to stay at the motel and sometimes had to sleep outside. The people I worked for gave me a hard time about my living arrangement, which was caused by the company. My co workers began to harass me for the entire 10 hour work day. Prior to the harassment my attendance was considered very good. Once the harassment began my attendance record began to suffer. I made several complaints to management and HR about the harassment. Amazon has a strict policy against harassment, according to them. I had a manager witness the harassment and began to give them specific names and details about the coworkers who were bothering me. I am Jewish and was the only Jew i knew of working at that particular warehouse. I let management know this as well. When my attendance continued to suffer I was fired.
I appealed the termination and had a meeting with the man in charge of the entire warehouse. He brought my attendance record with him into the meeting. He showed me how good my attendance was until a certain point. I told him that is when the harassment began. He made the decision based on all of the information that my termination should remain in place.
My last option was to go to the ethics committee. I told them my story and they told me they would give the information to someone at the warehouse. I told them the story of the man in charge of the warhouse and requested that the case be brought to HR outside of this particular warehouse. A man from regional HR called me and said he would look into my allegations. I eventually won my rehire eligibility back and was told that they would try to find me a job in the area in which I now live. That was months ago.
I have now been homeless since the company fired me in mid September. Human Resources knows that I am homeless and living in the cold this winter. I am left wondering why we allow companies to treat their employees this way. Amazon has to many class action lawsuits filed against them from former employees that going to an attorney will get one no where. All I did was follow company rules and the company let me down. I am now looked down upon in the community in which I live because Amazon is dragging its heels. These people probably bought most of their gifts from Amazon, the same company that does not care if it makes its employees homeless. So while Amazon will be bringing great joy to thousands of Americans this holiday season, I am living outdoors in the cold.
The United States has a homeless crisis. In the year 2000 it was estimated that nearly 3.5 million people were homeless and each year the numbers increase. In order to address this problem the way that non-profit agencies are structured needs to change. States need to decriminalize the state of being homeless as giving tickets and locking people up in jail does not fix the problem and rent control needs to be implemented.
After a long term relationship ended I was living in Denver and found myself in the situation of being homeless after not being able to pay the rent on my apartment. It was the first time I had to use social services and it was an eye opener into the world of poverty and homelessness. I never imagined I would end up in that situation having a master’s degree and a lot of work experience. But there I was and in that experience I learned a lot.
The first service I signed up for was food stamps. I was surprised that when one uses food stamps they are not allowed to purchase hot food. Apparently our government does not feel that the poor should be allowed to eat a warm meal, however one can buy a gallon of icecream. In Denver in order to be on food stamps one has to volunteer at a non-profit agency for a certain number of hours per month. I had no problem with that as I already volunteered at a food bank. However as I learned more about homelessness and the non-profit agencies serving them, the issue of volunteers has a downside which I will discuss later.
I volunteered at a food bank a couple of times a week. I served as a social worker in an office where I would see people before they got their food with any other services they may be in need of. I was in a unique position because I tried a lot of the services before recommending them to others. That is when I learned the horrible truth about non-profits set up to serve the homeless. I went to several agencies that promised help online or a pamphlet I had received. I would make an appointment with the agency and show up to the appointment on time or walk in depending on the agency. A volunteer, many of whom were food stamp recipients, would hand me a sheet of paper with the names, addresses and phone numbers of other agencies that would be able to help me. I would take the piece of paper to other agencies where I was greeted by a volunteer, again a food stamp recipient and handed another sheet of paper with names, addresses and phone numbers of other agencies who would be able to help me.
The only help most of the agencies gave me was to hand me a sheet of paper referring me to another agency, but I never actually received any help. I saw that most of these agencies were staffed with food stamp recipients and not social workers with master’s degrees on that subject. Actually most of the agencies I went to did not do much. I do know however from my master’s degree in management that non-profit agencies receive funding from the United States government and that funding is based upon the number of people served. Each time I went in and was given a sheet of paper with names and numbers of other agencies, that particular agency could mark me down as a person being served. The executives of these agencies were being paid salaries while the agencies themselves were staffed with food stamp recipients. The executives were being paid for doing nothing, and our government was paying them to do nothing. There is no incentive to get people off the street and back on their feet if employees of social service agencies are paid based on the number of people served. If they actually were successful at their job, they would lose their job. The homeless are sent around in circles from agency to agency and receive almost no help.
In Seattle I volunteered at my synagogue’s homeless shelter for women. I would drive a van downtown to pick them up at a shelter there to bring them back to the synagogue where they would spend the night. When I would enter the shelter downtown often the staff would be screaming at the top of their lungs at the homeless women. One time the police were there for some reason and one of them looked at me and said, “Oh my God!” The staff at places that serve the homeless need to be educated and trained and not to view their job as disciplinarians. The homeless are people not animals and should be treated as such. If the police are appalled you know it is bad.
If we restructure the way non-profits are funded there may be more incentive for these non-profits to serve the poor and homeless and help them get back on their feet and into housing. The people who serve the homeless need to be qualified social workers and not food stamp recipients who have no interest in helping the clients at a non-profit. Until this happens the number of homeless in cities all across the United States will continue to grow. We need to hold the agencies helping the homeless accountable for the services they are providing and to make sure their clients are not just given a piece of paper referring them to another agency, but that their agency actually does provide the help and services they advertise themselves as providing.
We as citizens, both wealthy and poor, need to demand from our government that the structure of non-profit organizations be changed. The wealthy do not want to see the homeless living on their streets and the homeless want homes, not pieces of paper referring them to another agency. Let 2018 be the year that the United States tackles its homeless crisis and becomes a model for other countries.